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How to Break a Fan’s Heart

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Jude McAtamney’s Miss: The Kick That Broke the Giants’ Heart

There are moments in sports that are hard to watch — not because of the scoreboard, but because you can see the heartbreak written on someone’s face in real time. Sunday afternoon in Denver was one of those moments. The Giants were right there. A game they weren’t supposed to win, a game they clawed their way through on the backs of an exhausted defense and a quarterback who finally found rhythm in the fourth quarter — it was all right there.

And then Jude McAtamney missed the extra point.

Not a 58-yard field goal into the wind. Not a desperation heave at the buzzer. An extra point — the play that’s supposed to be automatic in the modern NFL. Ninety-four percent of the time, it’s good. That’s why they call it “extra.”

But this one wasn’t.

To be fair, McAtamney wasn’t the only Giant who made mistakes. The defense, lights-out for three quarters, finally cracked late. The offense sputtered early. The coaches had some calls they’d like back. That’s football. But there’s a hierarchy of failure, and missing an extra point sits near the top — because it’s the one thing that’s not supposed to happen.

Let’s be honest: no, I couldn’t make that kick. Not in an empty stadium, not in a backyard, not with my friends laughing behind me. But that’s the point — I’m not paid millions of dollars to make it. Jude McAtamney is. Fans don’t expect perfection, but we do expect the basics. The “luxury of minimal expectation,” if you will.

When that ball veered wide, the collective gasp was followed by the slow realization that it might cost them everything. And it did. The Broncos, to their credit, took advantage of every inch of daylight. They moved methodically, like a team that knew it only needed one score to win — and when they punched it in, you could almost feel the oxygen leave the Giants’ sideline.

The broadcast directors knew exactly what they were doing. Every time the camera cut back to McAtamney — sitting alone, helmet off, staring straight ahead — it felt like a cinematic choice. His bright red hair made him impossible to miss. His posture told the rest of the story: there’s no hat big enough to hide that kind of shame.

After the game, McAtamney said all the right things. “Gotta make the kicks. Not gonna shy away from that. I’ll take full responsibility.” Credit to him — he didn’t run from it, didn’t deflect, didn’t make excuses. But here’s the thing: who cares how he took it? The Giants lost. A postgame quote doesn’t change the standings, doesn’t make the locker room any quieter, doesn’t help the defense that gave everything only to see it slip away.

This wasn’t just another regular-season game, either. This was a moment that could have changed the trajectory of their season. The kind of gritty, hard-earned road win that turns momentum into belief. Instead, it’s another entry in a long list of “almosts.”

It’s impossible not to think about how sports can pivot on redemption. Look at Jackson Dart this same weekend — he threw what should have been the defining mistake of his game: a brutal interception that could’ve sealed a loss. But he came back, regrouped, and led a scoring drive that flipped the narrative entirely. He redeemed himself. The story became about resilience, not failure.

McAtamney never got that chance. Kickers rarely do. When they miss, there’s no next play. No opportunity to march back onto the field and fix it. Just silence, slow motion, and the knowledge that the ball didn’t go through.

Still, this one stings more than most. The Giants’ defense — magnificent for most of the afternoon — deserved a better ending. The offensive line that finally protected long enough to give the quarterback a fighting chance deserved a better box score. And the fans who sat through a slog of a first half deserved a finish that matched their team’s effort.

Instead, what we’ll remember is the missed point. The one-point loss. The image of a kicker, motionless on the bench, living out every sports nightmare on national television.

This isn’t about piling on. Jude McAtamney will move on — he’s talented, he’s accountable, and he’ll make other kicks. But this miss will linger, because of what it represented: the razor-thin line between being a hero and a headline.

In the NFL, those lines define careers. One week, you’re the guy who nailed a game-winner in the rain; the next, you’re the guy who couldn’t make the simplest kick on the chart.

And yet, maybe that’s why we watch. Because every now and then, the most routine play becomes the most dramatic. Because the human element — nerves, pressure, redemption — never goes away.

But for the Giants, for now, it’s just pain. Pain that feels disproportionate because it didn’t have to happen. Pain that erases three quarters of brilliance. Pain that reminds us all that, in football, as in life, sometimes the smallest mistake casts the longest shadow.

For McAtamney, the question isn’t whether he’ll make the next one. It’s whether he can find a way to forget this one.

Because if he can’t, the rest of us won’t either.

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